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About Ron Deal/Speaking Request


To contact Ron about a speaking engagement email him at [email protected] or leave a voice message at his FamilyLife office: 501-228-2425. Please briefly describe the nature of your request. See suggested speaking topics below.

Ron Deal

Ron Deal is husband to Nan (since 1986) and proud father of Braden, Connor, and Brennan. Everything else is just details.

Popular conference speaker and family trainer Ron Deal, LMFT, LPC was a member of the Couple Checkup Research Team that completed two of the largest qualitative studies ever conducted of marriage and remarriage couple strengths. Most recognized in the past for his resources and seminars for stepfamilies, Ron has been training premarital and married couples for over 25 years. He uses creative presentation strategies, including multimedia experiences, to create what some have called a "laugh and learn" conference experience. His audiences are never disappointed.

Ron is a marriage and family author, conference speaker, and therapist. His top selling books, online articles, and daily 60-second radio feature FamilyLife Blended (listen here) make him one of the most widely read and referenced authors on blended families in the world. He is Founder and President of Smart Stepfamilies™ and Director of FamilyLife Blended®, the ministry initiative of FamilyLife® to stepfamilies (for more visit and

Ron is author of the Amazon bestselling books The Smart Stepfamily: Seven Steps to a Healthy Family (and DVD series), The Smart Stepdad, Dating and the Single Parent, The Smart Stepmom (with Laura Petherbridge), The Smart Stepfamily Marriage: Keys to Success in the Blended Family (with Dr. David Olson), and his latest Daily Encouragement for the Smart Stepfamily. A highly sought after recognized expert in marriage enrichment and blended families, Ron is a member of the Stepfamily Expert Council for the National Stepfamily Resource Center, and is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and Licensed Professional Counselor with 30 years experience in local church ministry and family training. He is a featured expert on the video curriculum FamilyLife's Art of Parenting (2018 release) and Single and Parenting (2011, Church Initiative), and his blended family material is widely distributed by a variety of family education initiatives.

Ron served as a member of the Couple Checkup Research Team (headed by Dr. David Olson, PREPARE-ENRICH) which conducted the two largest studies of marital strength ever accomplished. They surveyed over 100,000 marriages and remarriages (over 200,000 people) and examined the qualitative differences between highly satisfied marriages and low-quality marriages. The results of their groundbreaking research for couples are published in the books The Couple Checkup (Olson, Larson, & Olson-Sigg, 2008) and The Smart Stepfamily Marriage (Deal & Olson, 2015), and are featured in Ron’s seminar for dating, engaged, married, and remarried couples called the Couple Checkup Conference.

Ron is a popular conference speaker and has appeared in dozens of national radio and TV broadcasts both in the US and Canada; his daily 60-second radio feature FamilyLife Blended is heard by nearly half a million people each week around the country and online. He has appeared on Fox News, MSNBC, ABC Nightline, WGN-News, FamilyLife Today, New Life Live, Focus on the Family, Chris Fabry Live, HomeWord with Jim Burns, Celebration, and The 700 Club, and his work has been referenced online (e.g., ABC,, in magazines (e.g., Essence), and in newspapers throughout the world (e.g., New York Times, USA Today, New York Daily News, Chicago Tribune, Atlanta Journal, and Minnesota Star Tribune). The May 2012 issue of Ladies' Home Journal featured Ron's therapy work with a blended family couple in their popular feature column Can This Marriage Be Saved? Ron has written feature family articles addressing a variety of family matters for a variety of publications and online magazines including Focus on the Family magazine, ParentLife, The Family Room, Gospel Today, and Christianity Today. On a regular basis Ron trains therapists, marriage educators, and ministry professionals at conferences around the country.

Ron and Nan have three boys. Their middle son Connor died unexpectedly in February, 2009 at the age of 12. In his memory, the Deal's have partnered with Touch a Life Foundation to rescue and rehabilitate children in Ghana, West Africa from trafficking. They would be honored if you would help them sing Connor's song.

Facebook: @FamilyLifeBlended

Twitter: @RonLDeal


Suggested Speaking Topics/Events:

  • Empowered to Love: Christ's Humility for Your Marriage
  • Passionate Sexuality & Couple Checkup Conferences
  • Stepfamily Enrichment seminars (e.g., Building A Successful Stepfamily conference)
  • Professional and pastoral training in stepfamily therapy and ministry
  • Recalibrated: When Loss Changes Your Life
  • Sermons: When You Have a Less-than-Perfect Family, and Getting a Handle on Love When Your Love-handles Get You